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36
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 70
Seeking an extraordinary new.
I’m a down -to-earth person who values honesty, respect, time non judgmental, and good humor. I believe in kindness and treating others with the same respect and care that I'd want for myself. sometimes less is more , Simple, genuine, and real - that's me with class. seeking a grown up man not a “man child”, respectful. otherwise let’s connect.
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Standard Member
39
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Kathu, Northern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 39 - 60
To be or not to be..
If you are Neo from Kuruman I saw your profile. I’m a proud mom navigating the beautiful chaos of parenthood, and my daughter truly is my world. As an introverted extrovert, I find joy in both cozy nights at home binge-watching Netflix or Showmax and
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Standard Member
35
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Ballito, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 65
Looking forward to meeting my future partner
Dear future hubby : please note that i have 4 kids n i don't want more kids in future. Um telling u abt my kids so u know, it's not dat um looking for a sponsor. Um an honest, loyal n bubble lady looking for a matured partner for a serious relationship
23895909haha
Standard Member
39
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 58
A kind beautiful woman. Very considerate and sexy.
I am Vuyiswa or Gladys if that is hard to pronounce. Beautiful and kind with a lot of compassion. Willing to build to a strong bond with a loving man. No hookups or men who are not willing to have a long term solid relationship with a friendship.
22083377haha
Standard Member
31
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Kentani, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 55 - 80
seeking for a long term relationship
So- I’m generally a positive, optimistic person. I enjoy being social & can be very outgoing, though I have a quiet side too.. I‘ve traveled a lot.I moved to here about a year ago to be closer to my late uncle’s wife’s, who are dealing with some health issues. I worked remotely down here at first,now figuring out what’s next- maybe it’s time to write that book.
20662805haha
Standard Member
33
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 38 - 66
The darker the berry the sweeter the juice.
A chocolate skinned melanin who love life because it’s beautiful the art of being a sensual human being in creating a smooth operation intimacy I am a the type of girl who is very unique. Polite and down to earth. A great Ebony girlfriend with some nice stories for my own age. I am a great muse to look at and inspire you. My quirky look makes me stand out in a good way. I dares to be different. Anyone would enjoy my company as i accept everyone and see everyone as normal. I am very discreet and classy. I'm looking to have a fun time with you . I am someone you'll never forget!
20518801haha
Standard Member
Verified
39
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 57
Let's write our own life story
A mature, loving caring genuine woman, I know what I am looking for so please if you are looking for a sexual online partner, nude pictures or having fun I am not your girl sorry. Please dont send me your nude pictures also, I am interested in you, I wanna get to know you. There must be mutual connection, we must build on communication, remember I dont care about the size of your body parts it's the size of your heart that I am looking for.
20331109haha
Standard Member
38
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 57
lets create beautiful memories and live life
I may not only describe all the qualities but i believe it takes quite a moment to know and understand someone, especially a total stranger , I'm a very simple young lady, working on my own and sometimes demonstrate communal project, i love life and enjoy every little bit of everything that comes my way, very passionate and enthusiastic with much laughter and energy to ride extra miles lol...I love cooking, cleaning and making people look good externally and internally, i love 80's rnb music with iconic soft tones, i don't easily get mad unless you push my emotions to the extra limits, i don't play with emotions nor underestimate anyone, love is pure and nice when you found the right partner.
19705977haha
Standard Member
34
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 58
Pre op Trans woman looking for well groomed gent.
Meet the stunning and empowered Sapphire 🔷️ . an extraordinary transwoman ( I've been told 😅) who exudes confidence grace and beauty. I'm a post op Trans woman who has embraced her femininity and is proud to be living her life authentically . As a lover of the Arts I enjoy music and theatre .
17426333haha
Standard Member
32
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Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 60
Beauty
Hi, I'm Beauty, I'm a retail assistant by day, Doing body work outs is my go to stress relief, I really enjoy watching movies, it gives me peace of mind. I've been in a couple of great long term relationships and am ready to find someone special to build a life with. Please contact me only if you are interested in getting to know me better. Am really looking for someone who is ready to settle for marriage not casual or hookups.
17019005haha
Standard Member
30
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 35
I'M AN ENTITY, NEVERMIND MY IDENTITY
South African cannabis advocate who loves to love and be loved. I tend to get bored easily so the more colourful your personality the better. I am a die hard nature girl so get ready to go camping with Africa's beautiful wild life. Family is extremel
16819045haha
Standard Member
32
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 46
Hi, I’m Sarajean
Hi, my name is Sara-Jean, I’m a Christian with a Bachelors degree in Education(foundation phase). I would consider myself to be logical sometimes but that depends on the situation at hand, caring and empathetic, tolerant and patient(mostly to kids) though LOL 😂. I’m an extrovert and enjoy cooking, dancing, singing, traveling, getting immersed in new cultures, meeting new people and making new lifelong friends and most of all laughing(thanks to the kind of sense of humor that I have), I like participating in challenges that motivate and positively empower me as well as those that lead to new discoveries with fun and laughter attached to it. I’m very optimistic, goal driven and persistent especially when I need to achieve a new goal. PS: I’m just gonna be blunt, I do have a huge sense of humor, which means that I find most things funny but I would like to point out that I will not be a part to a conversation that eludes/implies to me gratifying someone’s sexual desires online, that being said if your interest is about talking/sharing of explicit content, I will like to bid you goodbye/adieu because I’m not interested but if it’s not then please know that the content of my message is to inform you of the kind of conversation that I’ll be a part of because I’m kinda tired of some guys on here using this platform as a means to achieve their sexual fantasies 😂😂😂😂😂😆😆😆😆✌🏾
10154489haha
Standard Member
39
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 60
Hey there 😉
Honest, loving, caring, independent. Self-sufficient, great sense of humor. I'm not looking for anyone pretending to be who they're not (scammers), you MUST do a video call if you're not ready don't bother texting me. I love adventure, traveling and reading books. I'm not a pornstar/nudist nor am I planning to be one so DON'T ask me for nudes or sex-chat videos (you're barking up the wrong tree). I know what I'm looking for exactly. Large and lovely Queen
26074697haha
Standard Member
30
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 55
Enjoying life & it’s little moments
I’m warm, kind, empathetic, funny and smart. Confident , I love being active and always open to trying something new.. I also love dressing up , going to new restaurants and just enjoying the finer things in life.. Loyalty & Honesty for me goes without saying .. Match me _I will be your lover & best friend
23932317haha
Standard Member
38
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 37 - 59
im looking for a companion to go on a road trip wt
my name is Lungi from South Africa in a city called Durban, a single mom to a beautiful baby girl. I consider myself asimple who values peace and tranquility in life, coming from a God-fearing family has thought me to value little things in life
23291513haha
Standard Member
39
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 59
Respectful and humble woman looking for true love.
I’m the calm in the chaos,a grounded, family first soul who loves deeply and gives fully. I believe in the quiet power of connection: long walks that lead to real conversations, cozy nights that turn into lifelong memories, and cuddles that speak louder than words. I thrive in meaningful moments, whether it’s cheering on a game or simply being present with someone I care about. My strength lies in my communication, I don’t just talk, I listen, understand, and respond with heart. If you’re looking for someone who leads with love, lives with intention, and values the simple beauty in togetherness, you’ve just found them.
22336961haha
Standard Member
38
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 57
Seeking a human connection
I am 37 yrs old, i live in South Africa. I am a chef, i own a small business selling my own take on the local street food as well baked goods and groceries, its called a spaza shop here but i think its also called a tuck shop or convience store. I am playful, love, love to laugh and be silly, have a good fun time. I am very punctual. In my spare time i enjoy doing yoga, pilates, cooking and baking testing out new recipes and using my family and friends as lab rats. I enjoy cooking and baking for people, it really gives me a lot of joy. Its also a little vane i think, but it makes other people happy as well, so its not so bad. I am a long walk on the beach and cuddle on the sofa type of person. So i am on this app ideally hoping to find myself a special connection with someone that can develope into a healthy, functional long term relationship with someone who shares similar ethics and values as me.
20016521haha
Standard Member
35
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 57
Want my attention, be a great conversationalist😊
I am a very chatty and social person who loves good conversations over dinner, or a nice cosy setting by the fire place on a cold night sipping on wine. Very opinionated and humorous. Naturally inquisitive and a hell lot of fun to be around, very playful and free spirited, they'll never be a dull moment when you're around me. I love trying out new things, experiences and exploring whatever I can.
16395521haha
Standard Member
36
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 57
Fun, witty, blunt.
I love the beautiful things of life, i am very blunt, no pretense zone. A happy child.. please read before you write me very important, I don’t send nudes!!!!! i am blunt, no pretense what so whatsoever. it all starts with a good conversation and communication, if you are not up for that don’t write me pls.
12155249haha
Standard Member
35
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Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 34 - 70
Did somebody say wine?
Where do I begin? I love a good glass of wine. I’m kind, sassy, easy going and a lot of this and a bit of that...did I mention I love a good glass of wine? Well then. I thought I had found THE ONE irl but he turned out to be a f*cken DOG and I’m a cat person 🤷🏻♀️That’s why I’m here, basically. Did I mention I’m funny? *insert smiley face here*
20288993haha
Standard Member
Verified
30
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 30 - 59
I'll give you all the love you need and much more
Yes, im from South Africa, not all Africans are looking to ask for money, also no i will not be sending nudes. I love talking and laughing. I have a bubby personality and open minded. I like learning new things, reading and listening to music. I am respectful and passionate. I love being with my partner
16520885haha
Standard Member
37
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 50
I'm a mother of 2, deal breaker? pls don't contact
Hi, name is Ntswaki and I'm 34 years from South Africa. I here because I'm ready for love to find me..I love life and looking for someone that's ready to give love another chance. Someone to enjoy life with...some share love,happiness and everything that life may through at us. I'm ready, are you ready?
22941645haha
Standard Member
31
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 32 - 60
looking for a serious relationship
I’m a passionate and ambitious woman who believes in living life to the fullest. As a professional makeup artist and content creator, I thrive in creative spaces and love expressing myself through beauty and artistry. I enjoy meaningful conversations, adventurous travels, and luxurious experiences. My ideal relationship is built on mutual respect, connection, and shared fun. I’m looking for someone who knows how to spoil their partner, values quality time, and isn’t afraid to move mountains for the one they care about. Let’s share laughter over dinner, explore exciting destinations, and create unforgettable memories together. If you’re kind, generous, and enjoy making someone smile, I’d love to hear from you.
25360305haha
Standard Member
31
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 60
you really can't keep the GOOD WOMAN down PERIOD!!
am a mother of a handsome young man,aged 1 year 7months old boy,i am a very humble person,ambitious,goal driven type of a woman.who is ready to take the world.am introvert but i can also be an extrovert person depending on people who have surrounded
21126809haha
Standard Member
35
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Lydenburg, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 60
looking for true love
An adventurous down to earth and open minded African woman👱♀️mom of two😍I am blessed already😇I love dancing and enjoy home made meals🤤sometimes staying indoors and being lazy with my man gives me peace😊I love attention and value communication s
20578437haha
Standard Member
32
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 32 - 58
I am single and I am not here for scam
I am Queen, beautiful young woman, who is bubbly and I love people and I'm so friendly and I know I'm a hardworke, I'm simple and humble, wife material😊 and I have a small heart, if I'm hurt i cry😥😀 you contact me onI will send you one number 😉
26033345haha
Standard Member
31
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 35 - 63
Coffee, laughter and real connections.
I'm a caring and ambitious woman who believes in building genuine connections. I enjoy simple things like coffee dates, deep conversations, and a good laugh. When I'm not working, you'll probably find me reading, exploring new places, or cooking some
22605089haha
Standard Member
31
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Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 60
want a serious relationship with some1 who willing
The most difficult thing is over, i have already left that age when bragging is the norm, now i am at that age when if something good happens in life, then i try to share these moments only with the closest people! i am a businesswoman, i love travel
22035177haha
Standard Member
38
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Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 50 - 60
Iam looking for some1 to adventure with, will you?
I'm a passionate and caring person who is ready and looking for new experiences outside my culture, I believe in love and I will not stop looking until I find it. I’m a sucker for love stories, and I’m looking for my own happy ending. I love to cook im a foodie, and I’m always trying new recipes,I’m a food lover, I love trying new restaurants, and I’m also always on the lookout for new culinary experiences . I love to stay active and I’m always looking for new and different ways to stay fit and healthy. I’m an adventurer, I love to travel and also explore new places, though I have not traveled outside my country, but that doesn't stop me for new exploration. I’m a movie lover, I love watching movies and tv shows and I’m always looking for new ones to watch. I’m a sucker for a romantic gestures, I also love being surprised with flowers, gifts, trips, or a romantic dinner. I’m a sucker for a good time, I love going out and having fun, that's how I neutralize my mental health. I’m a nature lover. I’m a sucker for a good sense of humor, and I love to laugh
20575101haha
Standard Member
35
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Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 34 - 57
looking for a loving honest man
Raised by three women my great grand mother,grand mother , and mother. I understand my value and wht I bring to the table. I'm single bcoz I haven't met a man who hold the same values as I do. I'm attracted by wht is in a man's heart, how he treats people, the humble, the respectful, honest ,a true gentlement . Im a strong woman and I need a man who can neutralize me, but with love and respect
18251641haha
Standard Member
32
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Midrand, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 40 - 99
Looking for perfect match
I am 30 years old, ready to settle down I am based in South Africa and I am willing to find a match that’s not based in my country . I am willing to start a new life. I am interested in someone that’s serious not a time waster. I don’t like perverts
6982005haha
Standard Member
39
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Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 33 - 53
Blackbeauty
Loves to keep fit ,I'm always @the gym . Adventurous ,loves travelling my passport is always ready ,very humble. Down to earth ,laughs a lot,God fearing,I'm a hardworker ,strongly believes in patience in all espects of life ,very optimistic ,believes highly in the word of God.
24890765haha
Standard Member
Verified
34
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Reiger Park, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 45 - 65
"I’m a mix of ambition, kindness, and adventure. I love good conversations, meaningful connections, and a partner who can match my energy. Whether it's traveling, trying new foods, or just enjoying a good laugh, I believe life is better when shared. Looking for someone who’s ready to build something real. "I’m a loyal, family-oriented person who believes in love, respect, and building together. I value honesty, ambition, and a good sense of humor. If you’re someone who’s ready for something meaningful, let’s connect!"
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31
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Port Shepstone, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 32 - 57
I love genuine,pure and happy souls...
the quiet embrace of nature, you’ll find me soaking up the serenity that only a stunning landscape can offer. I'm Sammy, an explorer at heart who thrives on laughter and genuine connections. When I’m not working on my family’s farm in the beautiful M
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37
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Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking:
Male 34 - 57
Südafrikanische Frau sucht seinen Schatz
I am a 34 year old woman living in Pretoria South Africa. I have a wish to meet a man who will love being with me, spend time with me and enjoy just being together. I have to be honest I'm looking to get married with someone living in Europe and build my life there. I am a relaxed person who enjoys cooking, listening to music, spending time with family. Neat and I take good care of myself. I don't come from a great background so I don't want to talk things which aren't honest, my background does not define me. I would like to build a better life for me and my son. We can also text if you would like.
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